Toxic relationships are those that hurt our physical, mental, and emotional well being. It decreases the confidence and stability within oneself while creating a negative dependency on a toxic connection/person.
Uterine Fibroids are non-cancerous (benign) growths that form in and outside of the uterus that often appear during a woman’s childbearing years. For over 20 years I suffered with Uterine Fibroids resulting in physical changes within my body that for the most part was invisible to the naked eye. These Fibroids grew to the size of a 4 month pregnancy resulting in an enlarged uterus that stretch to my rib cage causing severe acid reflux, heavy menstrual bleeding, increased body weight, and scarring of my abdominal wall cavity. Under normal circumstances, one would opt to have their uterus removed as a surgical remediation to alleviate the effects of the enlarged Fibroids. Unfortunately this was not the case for me. I was apprehensive regarding surgical removal of my uterus and the possible complications thereafter so I lived with these growths in spite of the medical complications and changes within my body. Immediately after my surgical procedure, I felt a newness within my body.
Although I was aware of the negative consequences of allowing these growth to maintain occupancy within me reducing my physical, mental and emotional well being; the thought of being separated from the very thing that brought forth 3 bundles of joy was a bit much to fathom in my psyche. How could something that brought you so much joy cause you so much pain? In my mindset there had to be a way that both my uterus and I could remain connected with other medical remediation other than removal.
So it is in life and the toxic relationships that we choose to be connected to. It is a strain on ones physical,mental and emotional well being to struggle within oneself how someone who once brought so much joy to your life now brings unduly pain. This struggles resides in our hearts (love) and our minds (righteousness). The hardest part is to make a decision to separate from the toxicity that’s slowly killing you inside even when the harm is invisible to the naked eye (our peers). Anyone that has the ability to decrease you mental health or cause instability is not worth the connection. This is not an overnight process, but a worthy process no doubt. Once you decide to disconnect physically from the hurt and pain of this relationship, you will begin to experience a newness in life.
It is not your responsibility to accept abuse rather it be physical, mental or emotional for the sake of wanting to feel as someone “loves” you. I am here to tell you that love is an action and not a feeling. You are God’s beloved. Grow in love and be connected to someone who makes you love the person you are when your’re with them.
I challenge you today to begin a new journey. A journey of freedom. Free from the toxic relationship connections that hurts you physical and emotional well being. Connect to someone that recognize and appreciates the confidence and mental stability within you. This can only be accomplished when you begin to depend on our Father in heaven to guide and lead you according to His plan and purpose. Schedule that surgical remediation today!
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